Monday, November 04, 2013

The Week of Halloween/End of October and Start of November‏

Heya Everybody!

Sometimes Africa plays games as U walk down the streets and songs, as they drift from the rattling speakers of bars, bring back memories. Regardless that the speakers themselves being in their last leg of life the music is being played at full volume, but overlooking the noise that isn't the music, the familiar words come through. It is funny, the words of Celine Dion, words that I haven't heard in years, carry me back to my childhood.

I can see our little family driving down the highways of southern California, or in gas stations, parking lots to Vons or Food4Less, or just any time in our little white station wagon listening to, when it wasn't Radio Disney, our mother's extensive collection of Celine Dion. I can't remember what we were doing at those places, or where we were going, but I can remember us being happy. It is oftentimes nice to walk down memory lane, especially with those memories that you never thought you'd remember.

My week has been filled with, once again, the picturesque missionary activity of porte-à-porte, tracting. You can just imagine for yourself two young men, okay, one young man and a young-ish mature adult, walking side by side. You can see our well-worn shirts losing their white, our once polished shoes now dirty (or if you are like me, completely thrashed and riddled with holes like a 20's gangster) and our shoulder bags bursting at the seams with brochures and scriptures, the bags as well being weather-worn and sun-faded while walking along dirt roads under the weight of the sun's rays; the sweat of our brow testifying of the work we are doing. It is the life!!!

Albeit that tracting is a lot of fun, I am being honest in that, I love talking to new people and sharing my testimony with them, but I much prefer having rendez-vous' during the day. It is great to see all of the souls that the Lord has entrusted me with but I am confident that He wants at least a few of them progressing. Perhaps I am being an ungrateful servant, nine of the ten lepers, Moses with his inability to speak eloquently, but two weeks of tombez-vous' is a little discouraging. We have our flecks of gold amongst the rocks though, and for them I am most humbly grateful.

It has taken a bit of time to see what everyone is saying by Africa is ripe and ready for the harvest, but like the mangoes on the tree at the apartment, the biggest and best looking are often very rotten on the inside, whether it be due to age, or some little beasties that have crawled in and ruined it for the rest of us. There is a very delicate and special stage within the hearts of men that the Lord has prepared many to be at. It may not be "perfect" but with the sunlight of faith and the water of hard work we can get these "mangoes" nice and ripe, inside and out!

Among those of our over ripened mangoes is a man, and for the sake of anonymity I shall call him "Aka-aka-akpo." Have you ever met those people that are humble, they have the desire, but they have made a mistake that has trapped them without a visible means of escape? Aka-aka-akpo is one of these unfortunates.

The missionaries found him at a very vital moment of his life. The missionaries have been meeting with him off and on for the past five months. Each of the missionaries never understood why he wouldn't get baptized, but he finally opened up to Elder Kouadio and I.

You see, Aka-aka-akpo had been unfaithful to his spouse, and for those of you a little confused, that is a BIG no no. Along with his infidelity, there are certain powers attached to sexual relations, these powers are those of procreation. This gives two people the capacity to work in creating life, for giving a temporal tabernacle to one of God's children; these powers took full effect. Aka-aka-akpo found himself with an unfortunately unwanted child. These events transpired a couple months before him meeting with the missionaries and so his, I don't know a good English word for it so I will use French, concubine, but I now realize it is the same in both languages, is seven months pregnant.

At first he thought of aborting the child, but he knew that killing his child was no way to make the situation better. He is now lost in the so many paths that this life places before us with a terrible guilt weighing upon his heart. We are trying to help him; we are doing all that we can to help him find the answer from our loving Heavenly Father through prayer and searching the scriptures. The words of the prophets and the consolation of the Holy Ghost will be his guide. He isn't always available to meet with us due to his work and travels over to the village; he is the second village chief. It hasn't been long since he broke this news to us, so it will be an interesting next couple of weeks. Adultery, as terrible as it is, is still so much easier to handle than when the precious life of an infant hangs in the balance.

That is the interesting story of the week. I was slightly, very sad due to Halloween not existing here, but they are huge about the Fête des Morts the day after. The cemetery was packed full of "mourners", candle vendors, and FanIce.
It was quite a spectacle to watch, I am not really sure why they flocked to the cemetery, but if it was to pay their respects to their ancestors they could have fooled me. The day after that there was nothing but trash littering the cemetery and upon every tomb, as well as the newly magnified scent of fire and smoke.  I love Africa, but it is traditions like that which make me realize how important the Gospel is for our ancestors.

Family history plug, momma'd be so proud! Do your family history so you can pay your respects at the temple and not by littering their resting spots with trash and urine. This work is true! 

Sincerely,
Elder Haggard


P.S. Here is reference to last week's blog: a picture of the newly dedicated chapel! 

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